Declan, Brogan and Moira

  • Declan, Brogan and Moira are my 3 grandchildren. Declan is the sensitive boy who looks like a child movie star, sparkling eyes, gentle disposition and beautiful countenance. Brogan is getting tall and will be a tall young man. He reminds me of Jack Kennedy, very Irish looking, sunny disposition, easy going and lots of fun to be with. Brogan just enjoys life.
  • Then there is the surprise---beautiful Moira. Long gold tinged hair, quick intellect, closeness to her Mom, eager to learn, well spoken and only 4!
  • Declan is 9, Brogan is 7 and as I mentioned, Moira is 4.
  • These are the children of my handsome son, Steve and his brilliant wife, Jen. They make their home up in God's country---Maine. Steve is a counselor and Jen is an accountant. They live in a great place to raise their children---lots of space, a private lake and excellent schools.
  • There is Joy in this family, and I am happy to be the Nanny in the mix.

Kentucky 2012

I’ve just today returned from an eventful week in Louisville, Kentucky.

There are a couple of adjustments one needs to make when arriving in the South.  Louisville is pronounced: loo’ uh villllle, not loo ee ville as I was used to.  Another change occurs when one refers to oneself as I ( ah-ee ).  In Louisville, you leave out the ee and just say ah, for example: ah am going.  ah am here.  ah will see yeew later.    (Yes, there’s another one—yoo becomes yeew).

The Kentuckians are laid back folk.  Good ole guys, Hoosiers, with rumpled jeans and plaid shirts.  I found them to be generally helpful and nice to ladies.  African-Americans whom I met seemed more gentle than the busy career people up North.  

While cruising around in my rented car, I saw signs to Nashville, St. Louis, Cleveland, Chicago, Atlanta, Birmingham, Greensboro, Chattanooga and many other familiar names far removed from my own New Jersey.

Kentucky is notable for many things: the birthplace of Abe Lincoln, Henry Clay, Colonel Sanders and KFC, Jefferson Davis, Loretta Lynn, home of Churchill Downs and the Kentucky Derby, a vast national UPS complex, U of K winning basketball team, Bellarmine University, Arts High School, Kentucky bourbon, Fort Knox, Cumberland Gap National Park, the Louisville Slugger famous baseball bat, Muhammad Ali center, Stephen Foster, composer of “My old Kentucky home” which became the state song, Rosemary Clooney house, the wondrous Ohio river, Sherman Minton bridge on well traveled route 65, and glorious Louisville in full lighted splendor at night.                       

I was very fortunate to make friends with jolly Italian-American psychology professor Bernardo Carducci, of the University of Indiana East faculty.  Yes, I said Indiana.  I was there also—-another state of the US to visit and become familiar with.  IU East is one of 8 IU campuses, and the farthest south.

I have had the pleasure also of having been invited to the main IU campus in Bloomington, and being totally impressed with the musical curricula there.  Among the famous teachers represented have been Madame Virginia Zeani, Martina Arroyo and presently, opera star Carol Vaness.  But I digress.

Professor Bernie, as he likes to be called, arranged for me to be a part of the IUE International Festival, of which he was in charge.  This major event took place on Tuesday, the day after I arrived in Louisville.  Since he is President of the Italian-American cultural association in the Louisville area, he undertook the Festival responsibility as well.  Professor Bernie gathered representatives of many countries together to display their multiple talents, including performers from India, China, and Samoa.

My role was to present my children’s book, “La Favola di Fabrizio”, ( “Fabrizio’s Fable”) written in English and Italian.  At the microphone, to a large crowd, I explained the background of the story, read excerpts and played the Fabrizio Song, which is sung so beautifully by the  Celebration Singers children’s choir of Cranford, New Jersey.

Everybody loved Fabrizio and I was able to sell many copies.  I also played on the piano some popular Italian melodies, including “Volare”, “Arrivederci Roma”, “Tarantella” and “That’s Amore”.  Everybody was singing and dancing and enjoying the Italian-American music. Even the food was authentic.

In addition to all of this, we had 2 accordian players. I hadn’t heard accordians for quite some time, so this was a treat.

Everybody was adorned wearing tall Italian hats in Italy’s tri-colors—-green, white and red as emblazoned on the national flag.

I truly enjoyed the day, meeting all the various faculty, performing, publicizing Fabrizio, and having a thoroughly happy time.

On Wednesday, I made my way on the short ride to Indiana once again.  This time, I had been invited by Professor Mariana Farah, head of choral studies, to teach a voice master class.  The class was held on stage at the small performance hall in the Ogle building on campus.

There were 3 young singers, 1 male and 2 female.  They were accompanied by a piano professor.  I was glad to see that they had memorized their music.  The teacher of the young man was present and we were able to chat after the sessions.  All 3 of the students are excellently trained and it was a pleasure to work with them.

Professor Fahra took me to lunch at Applebee’s as her guest.  Since Applebee’s is one of my favorite lunch stops, this was enjoyable also.

I heard afterward that 2 of the IUE voice program students had participated in the NATS competition and that the young tenor had won.  Naturally, I am very happy for him.

Hearing about NATS reminded me of my former voice teacher, Dodie Protero, who had been its president.  It remains one of the most prestigious groups of professional voice teachers in the US.

As a footnote, I learned that IUE is in the town of New Albany, named after my own hometown.  

Later on Wednesday, Professor Fahra invited me to observe her choir rehearsal in the same hall.  There were about 40 singers on stage, including a few participants from the community.  This was interesting, since I have been a community participant this year in the Seton Hall University community choir.  It has been a mind/voice stretching experience.

Professor Fahra is meticulous and dedicated to her Art.  A native of Brazil, she and I became friends immediately.  I admire the teaching that she is doing.  Among the pieces which the choir rehearsed was a Bach chorale which contains a double Fugue and accompaniment on piano that goes like the wind.  This is a tremendously challenging piece, with nonstop vocal challenges.  I loved it!

 I got to know the pianist who, I found out, is a regular organist!  So we two had a lot in common and had a fine long chat.

On Thursday, I was invited by my Hibernian host, Bill Riley, to attend the blessing of the keg.  I knew what a keg is, but had never been to such a ceremony.  It was held at Molly Malone’s, a popular Louisville Irish pub.  In attendance were members of the AOH, ( Ancient Order of Hibernians ), the town mayor, the priest who blessed the keg, many dignitaries, and the gentleman who owns all the fine beer recipes.

I sampled a new beer called Beer Barrel Stout.  The beer is stored in liquor barrels, and absorbs some of its flavor from the wood.  I often tasted my father’s beer as a child.     ( He enjoyed Ballantine’s and Dobler beers ), but I have never tasted anything so delicious in my life. Dark in shade, it is tantalizing.

The many Hibernian gentlemen present, along with their wives and families, sat down to dinner at Molly’s, including myself.  I enjoyed, for the first time, potato chowder, which is very tasty.  Bill and his entourage made sure that I had a fine seat with them.

The Hibernians are a jolly group, devoted to their Irish traditions and have been around for more than 100 years!

On Friday afternoon, I met Bill at Saint Louis Bertrand Catholic church in Louisville, home of the Hibernians.  We visited the old school building where I would be singing on Saturday, and set up the microphone and the area where I would be performing.

At 8 pm on Friday, I was back in Indiana, attending a concert with Professor Claudia Crump, whom I had met at the International Festival.  Claudia had invited me, and we heard the group called VOCES 8 from England.  VOCES 8 consists of 2 women singers and 6 men.  They are an a capella group and are marvelous!  Their repertoire included all kinds of music, from Back to Bernstein.  I was very impressed by their musicianship, and to help celebrate their performance, the larger recital hall was full.

After the concert, my biggest challenge was to arrive home to my hotel, while driving my rented car, on a very black night, on unfamiliar roads.  Because of my speed, I am sure that drivers following me would have liked to give me a push to hurry me up.  Fortunately, my trip was uneventful, though slow, and I arrived back in one piece, and without having to backtrack in the dark.

Saturday morning was a wonder.  I arrived at the old school building very early, observed the Irish chefs preparing the food, ate some of it, enjoyed it very much, and learned something new.  When the Irish eat home baked biscuits, they pour a white gravy over the biscuits—-I don’t know why I never came across this before.  But this tasty dish was enjoyed by all, as well as the scrambled eggs, bacon and ham, along with the soda bread.

The entire tableau reminded me of my parents and their social life at the Albany, New York AOH ( Ancient Order of Hibernians ), and of my first public singing appearance at the age of 3.  How very poignant!

Along with my program of Irish songs and stories, ( which were enthusiastically received ), there was an area group of step dancers.  I’m always happy to observe this grand old tradition, which is unique in the world.

After breakfast, we went next door to the Church for Mass.  The pageantry of the Mass was even more meaningful for me, because the Ordinary ( Sanctus, Agnus Dei, etc. ) was sung by the cantor and congregation in Latin.  Here again, I was reminded of my youth, playing the organ at a very young age, and growing up with that stately language, which I revere to this day.

The organist, Tony Clemons,  has been serving Saint Louis Bertrand for over 20 years, and, having been in touch with him several times by phone, it was good to meet him in person. Tony is a pleasure to work with and an excellent musician.

I had the pleasure, at this Mass, of singing with the Hibernian choir, conducted by Sean, ( forgot his last name ), a young man, and graduate of Notre Dame. Sean told me that he had been in the choir at college.  He has a very pleasant voice.

The Hibernians, about 80 of them, were seated in the front pews of the huge Church, and, in addition to the service, grade school children who were winners of the St. Patrick’s coloring contest, were brought to the altar to receive their prizes.

After Mass, I had my photo taken with the Deacon, Reverend Mr. William Klump, a very gracious man, who was attired in priestly robes.

At 3 pm, also on Saturday, I had the great pleasure of riding in the first float in the Hibernians’ St. Patrick Day parade.  What a treat!  I felt like Princess Diana, waving to the thousands of people lining the route—-and what a glorious sunny day we had!  All told, there were 125 floats in the parade and it lasted several hours.  After our float finished the route, I was able to stand on the sidelines and cheer the various groups, many of them in “family” wagons.

At this parade, there is a tradition of those riding in floats throwing long green beads to the children watching.  It was a lot of fun to see the children scrambling to pick up the beads and to see how many they could retrieve.

Since I would be cantoring at Sunday Mass, I made the evening an early one, in order to be well rested.

Sunday brought us Daylight Saving Time and more glorious sunlight.  As cantor, I shared the singing duties with the lovely soprano who sings at all the week-end masses.  As I mentioned, we sang several hymns and Mass parts in Latin.  This was most enjoyable.  Organist Tony again was gracious and played the organ beautifully.

Since I had time, I decided to head out to Churchill Downs, home of the Kentucky Derby.  This tradition, which has been taking place for more then 130 years, is one of the country’s national highlights each May.

I was reminded of the year, I believe in the 70’s, when I attended a Derby, and had the honor of being photographed with the original Colonel Sanders, dressed in all his regalia.  I remember how all the residents of Louisville in the surrounding area, “rented” their lawns to the visitors.  There wasn’t a visible blade of green grass anywhere!

I arrived yesterday, in time to visit the Kentucky Derby museum, take lots of photos, and participate in a walking tour of the grounds.  Seeing that famous track again was mesmerizing.

I discovered that Churchill Downs was named after the land owner, Mr. Churchill, and that “down” is an English word meaning “field”. 

I also learned that Secretariat, a derby winner, and made famous in the movies, had a heart weighing 22 pounds, whereas the normal size is 7 pounds.  So lots of blood was pumping into that noble heart and helped make Secretariat the legend he became.

As you who are reading this travelogue will agree, my week in Louisville ( loo’-uh-veeele ) was notable, unique and full of interesting surprises.

To preserve all the fine memories of the week, I have prepared a thick notebook, which contains some of every part of my activities. An open invitation is extended to all who wish to flip through its pages.

During my week in Kentucky, many new doors were opened, with lots of interesting activities, friends, tours, discoveries, all of which combined to make my first venture into the “middle” South a life changing experience.

G’bye, y’all!

(Source: pbdmusic.com)

Always Selling

I’ve lived in New Jersey for more than 30 years!

During that time, my children have grown, married, and had children of their own ( 10 babies in all ).

I’ve lived in and sold a great big house which had enough room for the 7 people living in it.

There was a lot going on in those 30 years.

There is one other thing that stands out prominently in my mind.  Tickets!  I always have had pocket-books with lots of zippers.  The more zippers the better, I say!  The more zippers, the more compartments.

When reaching in one of those purses through the years, and into one of the compartments, my searching hand would always emerge with—-Tickets.

Tickets, Tickets, Tickets.

Concerts at Alice Tully hall, Avery Fisher hall, Weill hall of Carnegie hall, Abraham Goodman performance center, Columbia university, College of Saint Rose, Siena college, Metropolitan opera, New Jersey symphony, New York Philharmonic, NJPAC, SOPAC, Churches, garage sales, Romanian cultural center, St. Peter’s Church, choir concerts in Secaucus, Salvation Army, Presbyterian church of Caldwell, St. Patrick’s Church-New York, and many other venues around the State—-everyone of these events required me either to sell ( or give )—guess what?—-tickets!

One of the results of all this hawking has been that I got to meet a lot of people.  And not just people in my lovely field of Music, but engineers, lawyers, teachers, doctors, nurses, actors, managers, sales persons, tailors, authors, priests, ministers, rabbis, children, parents, moms, dads, store owners, restauranteurs, fashion designers, models, painters, artists and other assorted fields.

It surprises me that, over the years, people did not run away from me when they saw me coming!  They must be very nice human beings.

In fact, in some cases, certain friends and acquaintances have been approached, cajoled, bothered, phoned, mailed and e-mailed to, numerous times.  What is even more surprising is the fact that they keep buying! 

As I think about it, maybe I have had something nice to offer everybody.  I do know that concerts I and my colleagues have sponsored, also TV shows, interviews and newspaper publicity have always had large audiences. It may also be that I am such a pest.

As I search my pocket-book to this day, I find those tickets—-whatever they may be for—-and also, business cards of all varieties.

Maybe one day I’ll clean out my purses.

By the way, would you be interested in purchasing my new book?

Master Classes

My Vocal Master Classes have been very interesting.  I’ve held them in many Colleges and Universities in the United States, and several in Europe, including Hungary, Finland, Romania, Italy and Ireland.

The Master Class teacher is somebody who knows more about singing than the students. He/she has also had a lot of experience, and learned many things about the Art of singing.

My first MC experience was at Duke University.  I held 2 separate classes on stage, and spent a couple of hours hearing and advising students.  I remember being very anxious about what would happen.  I wondered whether I would be able to listen to 1 or 2 pieces by each college student, for about 5 minutes for each song, and come up with helpful suggestions after that brief audition.  I had to hear, think, and decide immediately what each singer needed.

I did my best as always, but I knew I had to do more of this “listening”.

Soon after this experience, I had the opportunity to be present at a New York Master Class given by the famous opera singer, Shirley Verrett.  Miss Verrett entered the stage in a form-fitting bright red suit, lots of gold jewelry and black sling-back pumps.  It was at that moment that I had a catharsis.  I decided I had to make an impression similar to Ms. Verrett’s.

I immediately bought a silk black pants suit, co-ordinated jewelry and make-up, and the proper elegant shoes.  At my next MC, you wouldn’t have recognized me.  I had a different Air, I looked much more professional, and I was much more relaxed.  Naturally, I took lots of notes at Ms. Verrett’s class, including her reactions to the students’ singing and all the qualities that went with it.

My Master Classes improved greatly.  I learned to listen and make judgments quickly, to help the students relax, and share with them what they needed to do to improve.

Over the many years during which I have had the great pleasure of encouraging young singers—-male and female—there has been one factor which, in every single case, has needed improvement.  That is BREATHING.

A singer’s breathing is unlike the breathing we do throughout our lives and which we don’t even think about.

The great Italian tenor, Luciano Pavoratti has said that in breathing, “you just move the diaphragm up and down”, and what a diaphragm he had!

This movement is absolutely essential.  What I like to have the students discover, is that they need to expand the whole lower belly, and even the back. The breath comes from a deeper place, and the diaphragm expands each time.  The body is able to store ample breath to sing a complete phrase by expelling the air along with the sound.

In other words, the singer controls the air and uses it to support the tone.  And how beautiful a tone it must be.

We speak about athletes at our sessions, about how they “work up a sweat”, and begin to pant as they exercise.  For singing, we need that same feeling—-of gasping for air and taking in lots of it.

Dancing with students is something I do always.  I take their hands and move around the stage with them as they sing. We move our arms in and out, up and down, we kick, we strut, we circle, and the result is that we stop worrying about ourselves, and get involved in the moment.  We have FUN!

This relaxation, along with breathing exercises, helps the student to sing the same song a second or third time in such a way as to sound better, more confident and to add more into the meaning of the piece.

That brings us to another very important point in performing—-forget yourself!  Become the music, tell the story, be the character ( if one is singing an operatic aria ), enjoy the experience.

At the end of my Master Class sessions, the students are smiling, they feel successful, and I am happy that I can draw from them some qualities they didn’t even realize they had.

I’ll be holding 2 Master Classes very soon, both in US universities, one in Louisville, Kentucky and the other in Charleston, South Carolina.  I’ve been working on my Southern drawl.

Fabrizio gets a doll and posters

Darling Fabrizio, my lovely little Italian mouse, is being acknowledged by a doll in his likeness.  The Fabrizio doll will travel with me as I read the book and have signings in various libraries and organizations.  

When I attended the New Jersey school librarians’ event at Long Branch recently, I found that I needed a poster with very basic information on it.  So I wrote down what I felt was important.  The poster will say: WRITTEN IN ENGLISH AND ITALIAN at the top.  This phrase is an eye catcher.  I don’t believe there are many 2-language children’s books out there.

Underneath the phrase there will be my name, the book title in both languages, and website and ordering information.

For my next reading in Chatham, New Jersey, at the library, I’ll have the new poster, and hopefully, the cute cuddley Fabrizio doll.  I know that adults will be attracted to the poster and children will notice and squeeze the doll.

These new props are in keeping with my plans for “Fabrizio’s Fable” ( “La Favola di Fabrizio” ), in a pattern of growth.

Oh, I almost forgot——Fabrizio will be with me in Louisville, Kentucky in March when I visit the Irish Festival.  He and I will take a side trip to an Italian-American society.  I hope Kentuckians find Fabrizio as cute as we do up North!

Practicing Piano

I really like to practice piano.  There are lots of reasons.  One of them is that my fingers are very flexible.  This has been true all my life.  When I practice, I enjoy doing exercises, some for the left hand and some for the right hand.  As I warm up, I’m always glad to note that my fingers become more and more agile.  I think of all those tiny muscles in the fingers—-in the wrists—-in my palms——each becoming more and more independent, and thus able to navigate tricky phrases.

I like to challenge myself also.  I spend a lot of time playing pieces that have many subtle note changes.  Today I worked a full 2 hours and I did just that.  After I went through the exercises—-about a 1/2 hour, I turned to Chopin ( I have a large book with all Chopin compositions ).  I don’t play them to prepare them for a concert.  I play them because they are so darn tricky!  There are a few in particular that I practice regularly.  

I may never ever perform them, but they are tremendously useful in making the fingers stretch.  With some of the finger stretching, I can actually feel the hand muscles separate my fingers more and more.  

Because practicing the piano involves muscles, I feel as though I am doing a gym workout, only with smaller muscles.  

I have found that by playing and playing and mastering tricky passages, that my fingers “memorize” the notes.  They play by themselves automatically.

When I have pieces ready at performance level, when I have really studied them with my eyes and my hands, then I truly enjoy playing them.

This is all true of the sonatas I am working on now.  My PEL trio is performing as the solo group for a concert in Summit.  It is a very exciting event for us, since it is our very first performance as part of a series.

Every day I open the scores, read through them with my eyes, allow my brain to absorb the notes, and then work on them manually in a measured fashion.  Each repetition helps the finger “memorization” that I mentioned.  The more I do it, the easier it becomes, and, of course, the result is that it is lots of fun.

What I find to be very important is to have a goal.  Then I work even harder to reach the goal——that is——the actual performance.

When the audience hears me ( us ) play and they say: “It looks so easy”, that is the real success!!!!

Learn more about the PEL Trio on my website.

Motivational speaker

Since I enjoyed my Toastmasters experience so much, and found that I have a facility for speaking to groups, I have decided that I would like to become a professional motivational speaker.

In order to get going in the motivational field, I have been creating a flyer, which will encapsulate the theme of my speech, contain my business attire photo, some quotes

and my contact information.

My topic is: GETTING AHEAD IN YOUR FIELD

                   5 ESSENTIAL RULES TO MASTER

1     A NEW BEGINNING

2     ESTABLISH A NEED FOR YOUR TALENT

3     PROMOTION OF YOUR ABILITIES

4     YOUR STAFF

5     YOUR PROFESSIONAL APPEARANCE

Under each main topic, there will be series of subtopics, which will include principles which have worked for me in my various careers.  There will be plenty of display materials and printed takeaways.

Of course, I’ll have a Q and A session, which I really enjoy.                                               

I”ll be taking information from those assembled and plan to follow up on this.

We’ll have group activities, music, and lots of motivation ideas.

Regarding my fees, they will be negotiable.

I”ve already submitted a proposal to one venue and I’ll be back here reporting when I hear back from them.

I’m really looking forward to sharing my message with the World.

( I’m also going to create a power point so that interested persons can find me on the web. )

Let’s Chat

I’d like to hear from you about your musical and writing experiences.

web site: www.PBDMusic.com

email: pbradydan@erols.com

Anne Marie

When I was Music Director of a large Church program, I ran a one woman office.  It was very small and I was very busy.  My job description was: Organist-Choir Director-Cantor. I even started a Boys’ choir!  And gave classes to Junior Lectors!

In addition to these duties, I also played for all the weddings and funerals which took place at my Church—-and there were many.

Many times I was deluged with papers to print, rehearsals to plan, meetings with my colleagues, and in general, running a very full and active Music program.

One day, there was a knock on the door of my small office.  Standing in the doorway was a tiny, middle-aged woman with a big smile on her face.  ”Hi”, she said.  ”My name is Anne Marie.  Need any help?”  

My mouth opened, I said, “come in and let’s talk”.

Anne Marie did come in, we began chatting, and before I knew it, I had a Secretary!

Here was a lady who, at a young age, was mother to 6, studied at night and became a nurse, and then a nursing supervisor!

I looked skyward and whispered a “thank you” to my Higher Power.

From that day on, Anne Marie and I worked in tandem, typing, running errands, preparing programs, sending PR notices, making calls ( this was before computers ), and, in general, organizing and following through on every aspect of my job.

Anne Marie never accepted a penny from me.  She said: “God wants me to be in this place at this time”.  She assisted me for a long time, even running interference when she observed something in my surroundings which she didn’t agree with.

After her retirement, we remained close friends and saw each other at least twice a week.  She prayed for me every day, and was absolutely devoted to my interests.

When Anne Marie had her stroke, I telephoned her daily and made her speak to me, slowly at first, but, over time, more clearly.  She often said that she owed the regaining of her speech to those conversations.

Anne Marie left us last year.  I am sure she is up “there” making suggestions as to how God could do His Job.

Where is Fabrizio?

“Fabrizio’s Fable” ( “La Favola di Fabrizio” ) is the name of my recently published children’s book.  It is written in English and Italian and has a CD in the back cover.

On the CD is Fabrizio’s Song, sung by a children’s choir, and me reading the story in both languages.

“Fabrizio’s Fable” has been warmly received by the Italian-American community and those in the teaching profession.

During this month of January, 2012, I’ll present the book and have book signings at 3 Italian-American organizations, and at a few libraries.

It is so enjoyable to watch children’s faces as they try to figure out if Fabrizio, the crafty mouse, will outwit Luigi, the hungry cat, or whether Fabrizio will be Luigi’s dinner!

Where is Fabrizio?  He is at his own website: pbdmusic.com/fabrizio.html.  Visitors there can order autographed copies of the book.

Ciao!